Who Directs Your Steps?

"The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and he delights in his way."
Psalm 37:23 (NKJV)

Have you ever planned to go somewhere, maybe even a place you have been before, but when you think you should be at your destination, you realize that your directions were wrong and you are not where you wanted to be?  You may have had a good idea about where you needed to go, and even a good plan on how to get there, but your directions were based more on what you thought was right than actual, accurate information.  In a situation like this, if we do not check our directions, we can think we are going to the right place, but we will never get there.

We are all going somewhere in our life.  But the question is, what direction are we going and what is setting the course for our life?  There are many reasons people do things, and if we are doing things for the wrong reasons, or even if we have the right reasons but we are going the wrong way, we will end up with problems.  Sometimes Christians are looking for some "new and exciting" doctrine or a "special" meeting to make a difference in their life, but they are looking in the wrong place for what they need.  They are directing their own steps and not allowing God to guide them through His Word and the Holy Spirit.  

Psalm 37:23 talks about God directing our steps, but is it God who is really directing our steps?  Just desiring to go the right direction in life and do the right thing is not enough, we have to be sure that the course we are following is actually going to lead us to where we need to be, and we are not just on a nice path that really leads to nowhere.  If we are the one who is setting our own course in life, then we are not following God's direction and we will not end up where we should be, or where God wants us to be.  We need to allow God to direct our steps. 

If You Cease Listening, You Will Stray

"Cease listening to instruction, my son, and you will stray from the words of knowledge."
Proverbs 19:27 (NKJV)

Starting something is important, but continuing with that thing is even more important.  Whether you are learning a new skill, a different language, or starting an exercise routine, getting yourself started is usually easier than continuing to do that thing.  This is the reason many people do not keep some New Year's resolution or follow through with a good idea or desire that they have.  Once we begin doing something, we must find a way to keep ourselves involved in that thing, because if we do not, we will end up far away from our original intent, and whatever gains we might have made will be lost.

Hebrews 2:1 talks about paying attention to what we have heard so that we do not drift away.  Drifting away from something can easily happen if we do not keep the thing that could drift connected to something else.  We have to pay attention to what we have heard from God in His Word and by the Holy Spirit so that we do not drift away from those things.  One way we can prevent drifting away from what is right is to continually listen to the instruction we receive through God's Word so that we keep ourselves anchored to the truth.  

Proverbs 19:27 warns us about the dangers of not continuing to hear instruction and then straying from the words of knowledge.  If we continue to hear instruction, we will not stray from "the words of knowledge," but if we stop listening, it is easy to stray off the path of the truth and get into error.  We need to be in a continual process of reading and studying the Word of God for ourselves, as well as hearing good Bible based teaching that will remind us of, and add to, the godly instruction that we already have.  If we do not keep listening to the truth, we will stray, and if we stray, we can drift away.

What's In The Well?

"The mouth of the righteous is a well of life, but violence covers the mouth of the wicked."
Proverbs 10:11 (NKJV)

Most people today only need to turn on a faucet to get some water.  But in the past, most people had to go to a well to get the water they needed.  When someone digs a well, their goal is to get some water, not just dig a hole in the ground.  It would be strange for someone to say they were digging a well, but when they finished, all you could get from the well was dirt.  Or it could be that for some reason a well might become contaminated, and while there would still be water in the well, the water drawn from the well would not be drinkable and the well would be worthless.

One topic that we see in the Bible, and especially in the Book of Proverbs is the importance of the words that we speak.  The next time you read the Book of Proverbs, pay attention to what is said about our words, our mouth, and our tongue.  These are all intending to show us the value of our words and how important it is for us to say the right kinds of words.  The words we speak can help or hurt people, our words can encourage or discourage people, and our words can lift people up or put people down.  We need to speak the right kind of words.  

Proverbs 10:11 says that the mouth of the righteous is a well of life.  But is it just because someone is righteous, because someone is a Christian that their words are automatically positive and helpful, or is it more about the content of what is being said?  As Jesus said in Matthew 12:34, it is from the abundance of what is in our heart that we will speak.  This means we must fill ourselves with good things, especially with God's Word, to be sure that what is in our well, what comes out of our mouth, will be a blessing and help to others.  What is in the well of our heart that is then coming out of our mouth?

Walking In Love - The Best Is Yet To Come

"bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
1 Corinthians 13:7 (NKJV)

Some people have a negative view of the future, while some people are more optimistic about the future, and this can be the same with how we view others.  We can see and expect the worst in people, or instead of just thinking everyone is crazy, we can look for the best in people and have a positive view of others.  While this does not mean that we just blindly trust everyone and anyone, we do not have to automatically believe the worst about others and have a negative view of life, but instead we can look for the best, and hope for the best in people and the situations we deal with.

If we meet someone for the first time, should we automatically distrust them and expect that they will create problems for us, or should we be open to the possibility of them being a good person who will be a positive influence in our lives.  Walking in love towards someone does not mean we just accept whatever they do, but it does mean that we should be able to bear and endure whatever is going on, and we should believe and hope for the best in that person.  While we may look for the best in our friends and close relationships, that attitude should be one we have towards everyone. 

If we really care about someone, we are quick to forgive their mistakes and we expect them to do better the next time.  But should that attitude only be limited to people we love and already know?  In 1 Corinthians 13:5, it says that love "bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things".  If we are always looking for the worst in others, never expecting that they will amount to anything, then we are not walking in love. God believes the best about us and expects the best for us all the time; we too should believe the best of others, and of ourselves, expecting the best is yet to come.   

Do You Only Walk When The Sun Is Shining?

"And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart."
Galatians 6:9 (NKJV)

On most days, I will go for a walk, and depending on the weather, there might be many other people out walking, or only a few.  A while ago, it was unseasonably warm and sunny, and there was a noticeably larger number of people out walking.  Usually, I see the same people when I am walking, but on this day, I did not recognize most of the people I saw.  It was likely that some of them were only walking because of the nice weather.  Walking is a good form of exercise, but while it is a good thing to do, most people will only do it when the conditions are most favorable.

Some people have the idea that things in life, including following Jesus, should be fun, and easy all the time.  While that sounds nice, we know that it is not reality, because there will always be challenges in life.  Doing the right thing, when it is easy and there is immediate gratification, is what people want, but not everyone wants to put in the time and effort to do what is right when the reward is somewhere down the road.  We all like to do things that have less effort and more reward, but we all know that is not always the way things are.  

Galatians 6:9 tells us that we should keep on doing what is right, and not get weary when doing it, because there is a reward.  It is easy to walk in the sunshine and do what is right when the conditions are favorable.  But we need to keep on walking with God, even when it seems like the sun is not shining.  If we are persistent in doing what is right, we will move from the challenging and seemingly darker place to the victorious bright place where we want to be.  Real success comes when we are willing to do what is right, and then doing it, no matter what the conditions are.